A(nother) perceptive post by Bruce Charlton prompted a comment from me and since it concerns the most important spiritual quality and the one that is often turned against itself in the modern world I thought I would repeat it here.
My comment was:
I don't think most people know what love in the spiritual sense is. We think of it as empathy or compassion or something like that but these are the smoke of love rather than its fire. Or else you could say they are the reflection of love in the ordinary human mind. But when these reflections are mistaken for their true source all sorts of confusion and misunderstandings arise. What I mean here is that we tend to act in imitation of how we think love might act rather than how love really does act because love, to be spiritually based and therefore real, must be directed first of all to God. If that does not exist then the secondary love which is love of neighbour does not properly exist either though an imitation of it might. But that originates in thought rather than the heart.
Comment on the comment:
Everyone, religious or otherwise, wants to be thought loving. It's the primary Christian quality and the one that has been hijacked by secularism to be worn as a badge of authenticity and goodness. For that reason it is the most abused, trivialised, watered-down and imitated of the virtues. Because we all know love on the human level we think that gives us an insight into spiritual love but really it does not. We should have a totally different word. Some people like agape but I find this too academic and remote, as though it belongs in a theological study rather than real life, so we are stuck with love. But still we have to understand that spiritual love is rooted in the love of God. The fact that God is love does not mean that love is God. Love can only be known for what it really is when the heart is open to God. Then God enters that heart and love is known. Otherwise all you have is an earthly imitation of it, like the image of sunlight in water but the reflected image is still made of water not light.
@William " spiritual love is rooted in the love of God"
ReplyDeleteYes, that is true; but it is not very clear what you mean by it. Maybe another post?
My feeling is that love of God used to be something almost spontaneous, and largely unconscious - and it still can be, except that this is no longer strong enough in the face of so much public and official pressure against the love of God.
As you know, I tend to think of this in terms of God's creation, and that love of God can mean something like "being on God's side" with respect to the plan of creation and resurrection and Heaven - but being on God's side from love; in the strongest possible sense of commitment, loyalty, gratitude, hope etc.
I suppose I mean the same thing Jesus meant when he said that the first and great commandment is "to love the Lord thy God with all thy heart and thy soul and all thy mind"!
ReplyDeleteBut more precisely it means to turn to God and become aware of him in the heart and mind and then. Then, yes, you are on his side because you see him as the origin of all that is good, beautiful, honourable and true. You love him as the source of the true good
and even as the source of love itself. So, you need to recognise that love has a source and that source is God. Without the source there is no love. If you deny the source you deny love.
@William "you are on his side because you see him as the origin of all that is good, beautiful, honourable and true. You love him as the source of the true good
ReplyDeleteand even as the source of love itself. So, you need to recognise that love has a source and that source is God."
That is clarifying.
Modern people need a description of love of God of that sort; or else they will regard it as either being in an impossibly-continuous state of emotional love, or else a "love" so abstract and idealized as to be incomprehensible.